The language of flirting is the most common form of the initial stage of a relationship between a man and a woman. Do you want to always enjoy the attention of men and shine like a diamond in any company? Then these ten rules are for you!
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Eye Contact
The female gaze is a weapon that no man has yet resisted. Your gaze should be gentle and kind, no drilling with your eyes — this is scary. It is enough to cast an interested glance at the potential partner, hold it for 2-3 seconds, and then, with a smile, look away, slightly downward, lowering the eyelashes.
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Snapping Eyes
You can also cast sheep’s eyes a little. It may not work out right away, especially for shy people, so it will take a little practice. Light a spark of interest in your eyes so that they shine and light up, and then start looking into the interlocutor’s face, transferring accents from eyes to lips, then down a little. The main rule is to behave naturally, and then certainly no one can resist your spell.
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Innocent Conversation
If you’ve already made eye contact, it’s time to start a conversation. Do not burden the interlocutor with your problems and start an interrogation about his personal life. And even more so, do not talk about your unsuccessful relationship and ex. This will immediately scare off the interlocutor because men have a lot of problems at work, and communication with you should give only positive emotions. When communicating with you, the young man should rest and relax.
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Jokes and Humor
What could be better than casual communication spiced with humor and laughter? Also, do not forget about the timbre and tempo of the voice. Speech should be slow and soft, and the timbre of the voice should be soft and low. Forget about shrill and loudness: they certainly will not add sexuality to you, but only will scare off the gentleman.
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Ambiguity of Phrases
However, do not overdo it and do not slip into vulgarity. Otherwise, the effect may be reversed.
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Compliment
Men also love compliments, and they need to be done to instill support in the guy and the belief that he will succeed.
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Body Language
The signals that we send, consciously or unconsciously, can both attract the interlocutor and repel. Never sit in a closed position. In psychology, these include crossed hands on the chest or clenched and tense shoulders. It will be difficult to establish contact with you, and a tense girl trying to flirt looks at least strange.
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Mirroring Poses
Try to imitate the poses of your interlocutor, but do not overdo it, otherwise, copying can easily turn into a parody.
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The Fine Lines of Sexuality
Of course, you should look seductive, but do not overdo it with an overly short skirt or a too deep neckline.
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A Smile and Only a Smile
After all, no man wants to catch the glance of a sullen lady on himself, and even more so to speak to her.